Terapi i forhold til relationer​

​Når jeg spørger mine klienter, hvad der er vigtigt for dem i livet, er det ofte relationer, forbindelse, kærlighed og intimitet, der kommer øverst på listen. Forholdet til partnere, familie, venner, børn, forældre og kolleger giver dig både de største glæder og hjertesorger i livet. Jeg kan hjælpe dig med at opleve glæden mere fuldt ud og ofte og arbejde med hjertesorgerne med ro, venlighed og accept.

Sammen eller hver for sig?

Der er to måder at lave parterapi på - alene eller sammen med den anden person. Den første kaldes individuel terapi for parforhold og den anden relationsterapi, herunder terapi for par.

Ofte accepterer klienter, der søger at løse forholdsproblemer, at de ikke kan tage deres partner med, så individuel terapi passer til dem. Denne mulighed kan også være den bedste løsning, når du erkender, at din egen adfærd, humør eller følelser er roden til det problem, som du eller den anden står over for, så kan individuel terapi være den rette for dig.

På den anden side, hvis den anden person måske er lidt åben over for relationsterapi (de behøver ikke at være begejstrede eller endda ønske at tro på, at det vil "virke", bare villige til at prøve det af i nogle sessioner, så er en fælles session måske passende. 

Hvordan fungerer individuel terapi for relationer?

Nu tænker du måske, at hvis dit forhold skal forbedres, skal begge parter være involveret. Selv om det til tider kan være det ideelle, er det muligt at påvirke, ikke kontrollere den anden persons adfærd i retning af et sundere forhold for begge parter. Ved hjælp af principperne og teknikkerne fra Acceptance and Commitment Therapy kan jeg hjælpe dig med at reagere anderledes på din partner og endda dine egne reaktioner. 

Hvordan virker relationsterapi?

Menneskelige relationer - til partnere, venner, søskende, forældre, børn eller kolleger - har desværre ikke en manual. Men heldigvis har relationsterapier givet os nogle principper, som du kan arbejde med for at skabe mere forbindelse, åbenhed, forståelse og sjov i dine relationer. Disse principper er:

  • Forhold fungerer grundlæggende bedre, når begge parter er tro mod deres værdier.

  • Konflikter er en normal, nødvendig og sund del af et forhold - ikke noget, du skal undgå.

  • Det er dyrt for gode relationer at have ret, at score point og at vinde argumenter.

  • Du er faktisk ikke ansvarlig for de andre personers følelser, og du kan heller ikke kontrollere dem, de er ikke dine, men du kan påvirke dem.

Måske virker disse principper ligetil, men jeg vil gøre mere end blot at tale om dem. Jeg vil bede dig om måske at ændre den måde, du "gør" konflikter, kommunikation, nærhed og intimitet på, så kontakt og intimitet bliver en del af den nye normalitet og ikke blot et heldigt uheld.

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“ Jonathan is a wonderful person, I could feel it from the moment he walked in to the room. He is a very open minded spirit and connected easily with me through his empathy. It is obvious he cares for his patients and gives 110% in the sessions. I recommend Jonathan to anyone who is ready to get to know himself/herself better and work on achieving a better emotional balance.”


“I started going to Jonathan’s a couple of months ago. Wauw. I am so so happy with him and the therapy. In a very short time we dived into some deep issues I had, but in a very natural and calm way, and have since worked on specific things inside of myself. And I am BLOWN away by the improvement of my mental health. The tools and conversations are easy to digest, and very effective. Jonathan is a person you feel calm being around, and his way of listening, understanding and communicating is second to none. I’m so happy I started going there, and I know that I’ll continue for a long time. I can’t recommend Jonathan enough!”


“I have been very happy recieving therapy from ACT of living. It have been the most helpful. Even though you can't expect it I have left every session with a new understanding of my world, -I would dare call it an epiphany. Jonathan has been very skilled in helping me resolve my problems and I feel as I am in a new better place now after my sessions. I would highly recommend him:)”


“To everyone out there, my therapy session with Jonathan has helped me a lot to become more authentic every single day. I didn't know that I need help to become more authentic and accept myself the way I'm regardless where I live, my inner critic or other external expectation. It's tough especially when I'm living abroad, (in my case) changing countries every 4 years, so I had to adapt to new environment while getting to know who I am and my contribution in this world. Jonathan has helped me a lot to notice my authentic self and to show up everyday as her! It's indeed a live changing service that he provides.”


“Just as i have told Johnatan, when i talk to my friends and family about my issues, they give me their opinions and come up with specific solutions to my problems, however during therapy i learn to understand my feelings and work with my emotions, something i have never done before and as it turns out is extremely important. I become more and more in peace with the fact that all i feel and experience is a part of my journey and my feelings are not only human and okay but also valid.I can absolutely recommend Johnatan as a great therapist to everyone! I have come a long way and made a huge progress but i know that there is always room for improvement and that is why i will continue my sessions.”


“Hey. I had the pleasure to have five sessions with Jonathan. They went great. He is a great listener and greatly focused on helping. He kept me in my safe bubble and gave me good tools to be working with, which is awesome. Thank you, Jonathan. I would definitely recommend him, to anyone struggling!”


“First i would like to thank you Jonathan for Your patience, kindness and specially ears. As one of the people that you are always a ladder and shoulder to others it is very difficult to get ears to listen to you, and you have actually not only listened but also made me going back to align myself. It has been a wonderful experience and enthusiastic. Jonathan, thanks for putting your heart into what you do!”


“Jonathan and I had 13 sessions together and from the very first session I felt the warmth of his personality. I could tell that he genuinely wanted to help me in my journey of trying to understand myself better, and he most certainly did. I always entered a space where I felt safe sharing my thoughts and feelings, and he was always very present with me in that space. Sitting with someone who you feel wants to help you, felt healing in itself. That’s what I think is the most amazing thing about Jonathan; he comes from a very genuine and loving place.”


“I came to Jonathan in a very difficult time. I was deep in depression and anxiety which made me more or less feel helpless. To say it clear I was on the verge of giving up. But I didn’t want that feeling to take over my life, so I made a choice of wanting change and for that I needed help. I reached out to Jonathan and booked my first session. It was a really difficult session for me because it meant that I needed to face the reality of the situation I was in which was very scary. It ended in a very emotionel and honest session, and Jonathan made me feel safe to open up and actually listened to what I had to say. It made me feel like there was hope for a better future for me, and I had not felt that for a very long time. 


"I started working with Jonathan a few months ago and can say he has truly helped me change my way of life. During a depressive episode I reached out to him for help and have found myself coming out of it and reframing my view on life with his help. he approach is warm and gentle but firm. He has deep understanding of compassion that helps you find compassion for yourself. Our session can be intense but I always leave feeling better, having a real understanding of myself, and with tools to use. I recommend Jonathan highly to anyone that is looking for a caring therapist who goes the extra mile. 

I have looked for therapy since moving to Europe. Jonathan is the therapist for me, for sure."


"Jonathan has helped me now for about 3 months. I came to him struggling with stress, and on the brink of falling back into a deep depression. He helped me focus on rediscovering my personal values and, through that process, let go of the emotional baggage that contributed to my issues (some of which I had been holding for years).

With his help, I have managed to open up to the values that truly drive me as a person. And, most importantly, Jonathan guided me with a lot of skill and compassion in starting to live those values in all aspects of my life. I highly recommend him. He has helped me much more than a few words in a review can say. He has really helped me let go of the negative forces in my life and open up to a future full of positive energy and hope."


"I approached Jonathan for support with anxiety and panic attacks. Jonathan is a very warm, calm and empathetic person and an incredibly inspiring presence to work with. His consultation has provided such a positive benefit in my life, and given me so much more confidence in my self. I can’t recommend Jonathan highly enough for anyone seeking personal help."


"I can’t recommend Jonathan enough. His approach really opened my eyes to a lot of constructs I built up in my mind that were weighing me down for too long and causing me a lot of pain. I was pleasantly surprised that he brought his own individual style into psychotherapy and that made me feel much more heard and understood.

I never thought therapy would help me so much and I can advise anyone reading this to just go for it.


Jeg er her for at hjælpe dig med at leve dit liv fuldt ud, ved at lære nye færdigheder til at overvinde udfordrende situationer i dit liv. Jeg vil guide dig til at udfor​ske dine tanker og følelser på nye måder og hjælpe dig med at genforbinde dig med dine værdier og lade dem lede nyfundne handlinger i dit liv